People are strange. Really strange!
Be your family, friends, relatives anyone. They are mean, selfish and self-centered. They never ever care about your feelings. They are only concerned with their own interests, feelings, benefits and comfort. They never care about what you do or how you feel. People act rudely, badly and they hurt you.
You feel so helpless at times. Broken inside. But you cannot express it. You hide your emotions. You never speak up against their behavior. You tend to keep quiet and keep everything to yourself. And that is what really kills you.
People hurt you, disappoint you, and make you feel bad. But you do not react. If you react, they blame you. They never understand how you feel. They only shout at you, misunderstand you and blame you for all the wrong that they did actually. And you do not say anything in response. Not because you do not have anything to say in reply. But because you feel there is no use of explaining yourself. If they do not understand your feelings, then why explain yourself!
You stay quiet. And you distance yourself from such people. But the tragedy is that you cannot hide or be invisible. You have to live with them, face them and get yourself hurt every time!
Because though people change, but the nature of a person never changes.
Just ignore and get lost in yourself. The only way you can make yourself feel better!
So life does not always come the way you want. But you have to live it. You have to keep it going. Sometimes you don’t feel like giving your best or living life to fullest. But in any case it goes on.
Life always has something for you. Maybe it’s not what you desired for. But something you have to work on in order to get going. This may not be your favorite. But you can make it your best. It all depends on how you cater it.
The job you get, the person you meet, the relationship you are in or the degree you are studying, may not be going according to your will but you have to carry it. You have to keep it going. You have to make it best. Not for the world to see. But for yourself. For your peace. For your life.
God never shuts one door without opening another. We need to believe this. There is always one option or another. It’s just you have to find it out and discover opportunities that may come on your way. You need to find your way and work on it. Work for yourself and hope for the best.
It may not be your dream career, the perfect relationship or your prince charming. But it surely would be what God sent your way for you. And that is always the best.
You just need to have faith, to believe in yourself and to work hard enough to make it best for you. Rest is God’s will. He will bestow upon you what He thinks suitable for you.
There is this hadith that no one gets before time and more than his fate. So what’s for you will come to you one day. There is no use of running after endless desires or something you can never have. Be content on what God gives you. Make peace with your inner self. God will never leave your hands empty. He will always give you enough for your living.
Have faith in Him. Trust yourself. Work hard to get the best. And leave the rest to God.
May we all have a life our God plans for us. Ameen.
Life is unfair. Very unfair.
We can only dream, hope and desire. Though we try to change things for better and want to make our lives as we want to. But things not always happen as we want them to. There is this thing called Fate, and everything happens as written in your fate. You cannot change it.
There is this quote from the movie Brave that “there are those who say that fate is something beyond their control. But i know better. Fate lies within us. You only have to be brave enough to see it.”
I was really inspired from this quote when i heard it and from this movie too. But later, as life moved on, I realized that these things are only fictional and are restricted to movies only. Nothing happens in reality itself.
After watching this movie, I was deeply inspired and truly tried to make my own fate, to change things for better and to get what I dreamed of. But things happened otherwise. Nothing happened as I wanted. Rather things gone opposite.
I never wanted to do what I am starting now. I never dreamed of this career. Infact I wanted to make my career differently. But fate made me do so.
At this stage of my life, I have realized and accepted that fate is something you cannot control and everything in your life happens as written already. There is no such thing as changing or making your own fate. Its not that I am saying all this because I am disappointed or because my dreams didnt become reality. But because I have learnt it as I have grown up and have seen things changing and evolving.
A hard lesson learnt though!
But still, I thank Allah for all the good things and not putting me in worst condition.
I Thank Allah and pray for good times ahead.
My life may not be going as I wanted. But it’s surely going the way as my Allah planned.
I thank Allah for everything. No complaints, just a desire to change my fate and life that remained unheard. Though I didnt want this degree that I am going to start. But still, something is better than nothing.
I hope and pray for a better future and pleasant life ahead.
P.S I thank Allah for making my friends my strength who support and protect me always and their presence mean a lot to me 🙂